Saturday, October 26, 2013

SIngle in St. Cloud

Well, it's not exactly St. Cloud, but if all goes well, I will be moving closer to St. Cloud before the year's out, anyway. I'm excited to have this major goal that I set for myself this year move closer and closer to reality with each passing day.

It's going to be a lot of work and probably rather spendy the first year in a new place, but I'm not worried because I know that all the hard work I've put into achieving this goal will pay off. Now I can dedicate more of my time and effort into my next goal: having a great woman in my life to care about that cares about me.

Until recently, I hadn't allowed myself the time to really focus on making great connections with other people. I'd been too wrapped up in work, responsibilities and expectations to focus on myself. It wasn't until I turned 40 that I realized how important it was to really appreciate and take care of myself.

This summer was one of the best of my entire life, probably one of my favorite summers since I was a kid. I was able to take some time off and do a little traveling, enjoy sports and music, hang out with a few rock stars and rock fans, and befriend some incredible people. Some of these people are fantastic women that I've quickly become good friends with. For now we're just friends, but the intense connections and conversations could lead to something more in time.

Whenever there's been a woman I've been interested in romantically, I've always gotten to know her on a deeper level as a friend first. I've been a little disappointed lately in one such connection because I haven't seen her in a while, but I know she has a busy personal and family life and that it's definitely nothing personal. It just frustrates me because when I get to know someone so well on such an intimate level that I can't help wanting to see her more and continue to get to know her better.

I've also ventured into the world of online dating, but so far I've been less than pleased with the results. I've had a few women reach out to me, but there's always been something about them that I'm not interested in from the start. Maybe my recent friendships with some amazing women have clouded my judgment.

Whatever happens, I know that "the one" great woman is out there for me. For now, I just need to give it time, and continue to make and expand my connections. I've been patient enough for this long, I guess I can wait a little longer.

Well, that's all I can think of to write about for now. I've been listening to a lot of great new music this month, most of which I'll cover in my annual best-of review at the end of the year. For now, have a great weekend, everyone!

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Best of Live in Concert Vol. IV: Dynamic Drummers

I'm going to finish this series for the year today with one of the at times underrated but yet also one of the most important components of a good rock band: the drummer. Despite the stereotype portrayed in the movie "Spinal Tap," most drummers are the anchor to a great sound. With that in mind, here are the five best drummers I've heard live in concert in alphabetical order:

Michael Bland, Soul Asylum
I find it hard to believe that Bland has been playing drums for Soul Asylum for over a decade now. Previously known as a session drummer for different acts, Bland has come into his own in Soul Asylum. Last summer when I saw the band play in St. Cloud, I was amazed at how he helped the band move seamlessly from song to song.

Bun. E. Carlos, Cheap Trick
Although back problems have stopped Carlos from touring nowadays, I remember how his drumming a Cheap Trick show at the historic Paramount Theatre in downtown St. Cloud really kept the balance for the rest of the musicians on stage. I was impressed by his even demeanor throughout the entire show too.

Paul Crosby, Saliva
I remember a couple of great solos from Crosby at the band's 2008 concert at the now-defunct Trobec's Entertainment Center in St. Joseph. His energy and enthusiasm were a big part of the crowd's fevered reaction during their show.

Barry Kerch, Shinedown
One of the original Shinedown members and probably one of the most underrated guys in the band. Kerch can switch tempos quickly and really helps his bandmates get in the flow of a song. This is especially important when they feed off the crowd's energy during fast and slow songs.

Morgan Rose, Sevendust
Morgan's quite simply one of the best rock drummers in the business. I always enjoy watching him play different Sevendust songs onstage, because he takes a different approach to each one. He even plays the same songs a little differently at each show, which is a tribute to an artist who's always working on perfecting his craft. I also like to give him a little good-natured grief after shows for being such a diehard New York Yankess fan. I have to respect him though, not only for his work in Sevendust but also for keeping busy in his downtime, producing albums for Candlelight Red, playing in the side project Call Me No One and filling in behind the drum kit for Eye Empire and Korn at times.

Well, that's all for now. I hope you enjoyed this series - it took longer than I thought to complete, but that's what happens when life gets in the way, I guess. Until next time, have a great weekend, everyone!

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

2013 Minnesota Twins Year in Review

Well, a third consecutive disappointing Minnesota Twins season has come to an end. This year was the first time in a long time where I couldn't wait for the season to end, just so the misery would finally be over.

I feel bad for any fans who went to the team's final homestand this year. They were swept and outscored by a total of 28-13, and looked rather awful from what I've heard. I can't say for sure myself, because I tuned the team out after they traded former MVP first baseman Justin Morneau to the playoff-bound Pittsburgh Pirates for another fourth outfielder and another pitching prospect.

I went to a couple of games again this year, and the results were again predictable: I attended a 7-1 loss to Justin Masterson and the wild card Cleveland Indians and a 3-2 win over the morose Houston Astros, a team that lost its last 15 games of the year en route to a 51-111 record.

I've been a Twins fan for almost three decades now, but I can't remember the last time I've been this apathetic about them. My brother is a season ticket holder, and I know at times he's felt the same way. It's pretty hard to root for a team that set a team record for strikeouts by their batters and has had continued struggles at the plate with runners in scoring position all season long.

This team has also looked pretty raw in the starting pitching department at times this year. I'm surprised to see that the team's best starting pitcher was Samuel Deduno (8-8, 3.83 ERA in 18 starts). Former Pirate Kevin Correia (9-13, 4.18 ERA in 31 starts) was the veteran leader of the staff, but disappointing years by Scott Diamond (6-13, 5.43 ERA in 24 starts) and former Met Mike Pelfrey (5-13, 5.19 ERA in 29 starts) did little to ease fans this year. Relief pitching was a strong point, anchored by LHP Glenn Perkins (2-0, 2.30 ERA and 36 saves) in his first full year as Twins closer.

The offense, with the absence of Morneau via trade and C/1B/DH Joe Mauer via concussion to end the season, did little to inspire fans this year. One bright spot was the emergence of Brian Dozier (.244 BA with a career high 18 HR and 66 RBI) at second base. C/DH Ryan Doumit (.247, 14 HR and 55 RBI) and LF Josh Willingham (.208, 14 HR and 48 RBI) gave some offensive sparks but struck out more than expected this year.

Another disappointment was the trial of CF Aaron Hicks (.192, 8 HR and 27 RBI, 84 K in 81 games), who had never played about Double-A until this year. The play of Hicks and journeyman Clete Thomas in center field did little to make fans miss the traded Denard Span and Ben Revere.

My brother and fans like myself will probably go to Twins games again next year, primarily because the team is hosting the All-Star Game. Target Field is a great place to see a ballgame, although the fans are growing impatient with three straight losing seasons. I was surprised to see manager Ron Gardenhire get a two-year contract extension this week. I thought for sure he'd be gone. After all, no other MLB manager with three consecutive 90-loss seasons had ever kept their job.

The failures of this team don't rest entirely on Gardenhire's shoulders. The front office and coaching staff also shoulder some of the blame. I seriously think that unless they want to see their attendance finally start to sag, the management staff really needs to look at spending some of the money that went into building this beautiful stadium on players that will improve this team. Otherwise, it may be a Houston Astros type of future for this once proud franchise.

Saturday, September 28, 2013

Best of Live in Concert Vol. III: Brilliant Bassists

Well, after a brief serious interlude, I'm back to write about some of the best bass guitarists I've seen live in concert over the years. I have to point out that I purposely exclude my friends and classmates who are musicians so there's no conflict of interest. And now, here's my list of the best bass guitarists in alphabetical order:

Emma Anzai, Sick Puppies
Her bass sound is kind of different, as it's more of a "slap bass" style of play. However, it's one that works well. I was impressed by her playing as the Sick Puppies opened for Shinedown in Walker MN four years ago. She's also probably the first female on my best of list, and for good reason. Her playing and vocals really make a seamless contribution to the rest of the band's songs on stage. It's not until a solo that you can enjoy their individual elements.

Johnny April, Staind
He plays the bass line to one of Staind's biggest songs, "Mudshovel." I always thought April was kind of underrated being in the shadow of bandmates Aaron Lewis and guitarist Mike Mushok. I'm glad I was able to see Staind perform at Northern Lights Casino in Walker, MN a few years back to really appreciate his playing.

Dean DeLeo, Stone Temple Pilots
Although I have mixed feelings about the current lineup of Stone Temple Pilots, I have to say I was impressed how well DeLeo played at the Myth last year. He's also a gifted songwriter, having a hand in some of the band's greatest hits, several of which my brother and I were able to hear live last year at the Myth in Maplewood, MN for what was billed as the 20th anniversary tour of their debut album Core.

Vince "Vinny" Hornsby, Sevendust/Projected
He may sling his bass guitar lower than any performer I've ever seen, but he still knows how to expertly play his instrument while simultaneously entertaining a crowd. Without his bass guitar, I'd think that there are crucial parts of songs like "Denial," "Waffle" and "Decay" that just wouldn't sound as good. Vinny's also a very humble, self-deprecating guy that I've gotten to chat with and share a few good stories and laughs with several times after Sevendust shows.

Corey Lowery, Eye Empire/Stereomud
A good bass guitarist really lays the foundation for a great song. I've had the opportunity to see Corey (Sevendust guitarist Clint's brother) do this on two occasions, once for the band Eye Empire at the Myth in Maplewood and also at the former Del-Win Entertainment Center in St. Joseph, MN for his former band Stereomud. I'm glad I was able to catch up with Corey after a Sevendust concert a few years ago and compliment him on his performance.

Well,  that's all for now. The last installment of the Best of Series for this year will be on drummers sometime before the year is out. Until next time, have a great weekend, everyone!

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Ten Years Gone

I was planning on continuing my Best Of Live in Concert series today, until I was reminded about an event that happened a decade ago in my hometown. I felt compelled to write about that event today, so the Best Of series will have to wait for a little while.

I was walking out of work tonight when a coworker and fellow classmate of mine asked me where I was ten years ago today. She was referring to the tragic shooting at our old high school ROCORI, an event that suddenly put the small town of Cold Spring, MN in the national spotlight.

At the time news broke of the shooting, I was working in downtown St. Cloud. Upon hearing the news, my first call was to my family. My mother was still working as an early childhood education teacher at the nearby elementary school, and a cousin was still a student at the high school. Thankfully they were both okay. As word got out, my coworker friends and I drew our attention to the news as it unfolded throughout the day.

Although the families of Aaron Rollins and Seth Bartell will never be fully healed, neither will the family of the shooter, who it was revealed may have been motivated by bullying by Bartell. While I don't think any of us in the general public will ever really know the full story, I find it sad to think that the whole incident could have been avoided just by cracking down on bullying. I admit I was bullied a bit in elementary school and I had friends who were bullied but gratefully it's something that most of us grow out of.

While it's important for the community to remember this day, it's also important to learn from this tragic event so that it doesn't happen again. Sadly, I hear more events like this happening every year, even though I watch the news less and less nowadays.

Events like this are important to remember, and I'm glad that I can realize the reality of this incident. I"m also thankful that I can appreciate how much greater my life and the lives of people close to me have been since this terrible day. I think that's the greatest lesson I've learned from this.

Well, until next time, have a safe and happy week everyone!

Monday, September 9, 2013

10 Sevendust Shows in 10 Years

A few weeks ago on my way home, I drove through nearby St. Joseph, MN. While waiting at a stoplight, I glanced over to my left, peering at the spot where the former Del-Win/Lighthouse/Trobec's Event center once stood. I remembered that was the first place I saw one of my favorite bands, Sevendust, perform way back in November 2002.

I remember that concert fondly. A friend of mine asked me to write a press release for a local website, so I did my research.  I scoured the Internet for articles and listened to their albums. The more I listened to their songs, the more interested I became in their music. As the concert date grew nearer, I found myself more and more eagerly anticipating the show.

At that show, there was a bit longer break than usual following the last opening act 30 Seconds to Mars' set. The crowd was informed that there had been a death in the family, which we later learned was the tragic loss of Sevendust lead singer Lajon Witherspoon's brother. The band still honored their commitment and played a powerful but abbreviated set during a time when their heads were probably and understandably elsewhere that day. The band promised to return, which they did a year and a half later for an amazing show.

This past Saturday, I went to see Sevendust for the 10th time in a little over ten years, not to mention it being my 3rd Sevendust show this year. As the years have gone on, they've grown to become one of my favorite bands. I enjoy their albums, their concert tickets are always affordable (usually around $20-$30 apiece with 2-4 opening acts at each show), and the concerts themselves are always a great experience. I'd also had the good fortune to meet all of the band members several times, and they are truly some of the nicest people you'd ever meet. No overinflated rock star egos in this group!

I'm glad I left home plenty early, because unanticipated road construction detours in the Twin Cities added another hour to the drive. I still got to Maplewood, a St. Paul suburb, in plenty of time to do a little shopping and grab a bite to eat before the show at the Myth.

When I got in the venue, I picked up my VIP sticker and looked for a good place to watch the show. I settled on standing by a railing on the right-hand side of the arena just above the pit. There I met a couple of fellow Sevendust fans, and got to know another Sevendust fan whom I'd met at their show in Rochester MN a few months earlier.

At 7:30 p.m. local rockers Aeous took the stage. My new friends had warned me that they were a little rough around the edges, but it seemed like they were a lot more polished this time around. I thought they did a good job of entertaining the crowds that were still beginning to trickle in.

Soon, the next act, Houston-based rockers American Fangs took the stage. One friend suggested that they kind of sounded like rock/punk artists like Rancid, which I'd say is a fair assessment. Lead singer Gabriel Cavazos decided to jump from the stage into the pit for a while, and I had to compliment him on what turned out to be a good performance after the show.

An old coworker friend of mine had recommended the next act, Canadian rockers Monster Truck, after having seen them open for Alice in Chains in July. I'd heard their album before the show, so I knew to expect a classic rock sound from them, and I was not disappointed. Their enthusiastic rocking set kept the crowd enthralled, even more than some of 93X's X-Girls that followed them on stage.

After 93X's much-promoted X-Girls preview, it was finally time for Sevendust to arrive! The band took the stage about 10:30 p.m. launching into the fan favorite "Pieces." The energy continued as the band rolled through the new song "Till Death" from Black Out The Sun, "Denial" and "Praise." At one point during the song "Praise," lead singer Lajon Witherspoon walked over to the side of the stage where my friends and I were standing. I had to smile as LJ shook hands with the crowd, saw his eyes grow wide as he recognized me and took my hand to shake it!

I found a YouTube video of the band's Rochester, MN show from July a few weeks ago, and during one break between songs on that video, Lajon commented on how it doesn't feel like the band has fans but rather friends and family that come out to see them at their shows. I've felt like that for a while now, I guess, especially when the band slows down to relect during songs like "Got a Feeling" and "Angel's Son." I've always liked the song "Angel's Son" ever since that first Sevendust concert, and I took a moment during the song to remember a friend's brother who would have had a birthday a few days ago, a gentle soul who was gone way too soon.

The tempo increased greatly with the song "Black," the first track on Sevendust's self-titled debut and another favorite of mine. Lajon, guitarist/singer Clint Lowery, drummer/"Alien Freak" Morgan Rose, guitarist John Connolly and bassist Vince Hornsby finished their regular set with the single "Decay" leaving the riled-up spectators wanting even more!

A few minutes later, LJ returned to the stage crooning lyrics from the Marilyn Manson version of the Eurythmics' hit "Sweet Dreams" before launching into their encore songs "Splinter" and "Face to Face." I was amazed during the last song how Morgan was able to not only throw a few drumsticks into the crowd but also catch a couple of them that were thrown right back to him!

After the crowd dissipated, it was time for the folks like myself who'd purchased the VIP passes to gather at the merchandise table. Remembering that a pushy fan had spilled their beer on my back during Sevendust's set, I bought a concert T-shirt and caught up with a few people who were waiting to meet the group.

We were soon led up to the 3rd floor where the band soon arrived. The person arranging the VIP meet and greet was kind enough to make sure everyone had an item for the band to sign and even get a group photo with the band. I was happy to catch up with all the guys, and even though I didn't get the drumstick Vinny owed me after bouncing one off my upper lip during the Rochester, MN show, I was still happy because I got to chat a bit with all the guys in the group and get the group shot with the guys that I'd wanted.

 

The rest of the night went by like a blur - I caught up with some fellow Sevendust admirers and got to hear some good stories from some of the band members before people started trickling out. I arrived home early Sunday morning weary but with a broad smile on my face. I'd just gotten to witness an outstanding concert and even make a few new friends at the show. I'm already looking forward to my 11th Sevendust show, which will probably be the next time the group returns to Minnesota.

Well gang, that's all for now, so until next time, have a great week, everyone!

Sevendust set list:
1. Pieces
2. Till Death
3. Denial
4. Praise
5. Waffle
6. Got A Feeling
7. Angel's Son
8. Black
9. Bitch
10. Strong Arm Broken
11. Decay
Encore:
1. Splinter
2. Face to Face

Saturday, August 24, 2013

Best of Live in Concert Vol. II: Fearless Frontmen

It's been a long time since I've gotten back to this series, so here's my list in alphabetical order of the best rock frontment I've seen live in concert:

Brynn Arens, Flipp/The Oddfathers
Having seen Flipp play live three times and the debut show of the Oddfathers in St. Cloud, I have to give Arens some respect. Although his trademark spiked hair is whiter than before, he still knows how to play a great guitar, simultaneously sing and sneer and keep crowds entertained.

Tom Kiefer, Cinderella
I was impressed by Kiefer during Cinderella's set at Halfway Jam a couple of years ago because he really went all out. Not only did he sing all the songs of their set, but he also played guitar on about a half-dozen guitars, keyboards on "Don't Know What You've Got ('Till It's Gone)," and even saxophone on the closing song "Shelter Me." He looked thoroughly exhausted by the end of the show, acknowledging that Central Minnesota had "kicked his ass again."

Aaron Lewis, Staind
My first Staind concert a few years ago was memorable, mainly for one reason.  That reason was the powerful voice of lead singer Aaron Lewis. At the end of the show, he decided to do a solo acoustic song "Intro." Lewis took his guitar and decided he didn't need a microphone as he moved to the right corner of the stage. His powerful singing voice reverberated across the arena loud enough for everyone to hear, something I've never seen another singer do before at a rock show.

Brent Smith, Shinedown
I saw Shinedown perform at Northern Lights Casino in Walker, MN four years ago during their tour for their breakthrough album Sound of Madness. The band put on a great show, and Smith did everything he could to keep the audience's energy level up. He even walked all the way around the outside of the concert area singing and making contact with fans who were duly impressed.

Lajon Witherspoon, Sevendust
As I've probably said before, Sevendust never disappoints. Lajon keeps the fans thoroughly entertained with his soulful and energetic voice, and shares his insights with the crowds during every show. As he's said before at Sevendust concerts, the people in the crowd aren't really fans, but are considered friends and family. He and the rest of his bandmates are also some of the coolest, most humble people you'd ever meet.

Well that's all for now. Until next time, stay cool and have a great weekend everyone!